Is this abuse? Take the quiz.Does your boyfriend or girlfriend… Look at you or act in ways that scare you? Yes No Act jealous or possessive? Yes No Put you down or insult you? Yes No Try to control where you go, what you wear or what you do? Yes No Text or IM you excessively? Yes No Always seem angry? Yes No Say that no one else can “have” you? Yes No Blame you for the hurtful things they say and do? Yes No Threaten to kill or hurt you or themselves if you leave them? Yes No Try to stop you from seeing or talking to friends and family? Yes No Try to force you to have sex before you’re ready? Yes No Hit, slap, push, choke or kick you? Yes No You answered "yes" to one or more of the questions above, which means you may be in an abusive relationship. For immediate help, please call Safe Harbor at 1.800.291.2139. Although you answered "no" to all of the questions above, you may still know someone in an abusive relationship. To see how you can help, please call Safe Harbor at 1.800.291.2139.PhoneThis field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.