How to avoid victim blaming

Now that we know what victim blaming is, how do we avoid it?

• Remember that abuse is a choice 
• It is the responsibility of the person who harms to choose NOT to abuse 
• It is never anyone’s responsibility to avoid being abused 
• Everyone deserves to feel safe and valued in their relationships-regardless of their past, their behavior, etc. 
• Chanel Miller’s story 
  • This story highlights examples of victim blaming and some of the effects that it can have on the victim.