Boundaries for speaking 

  • You are in control of your story 
  • You should have clear boundaries around sharing your story or experiences 
  • You decide when you share, how you share, and with whom you share your story/experiences 
  • You decide when, where and to whom you disclose aspects of your experience to 
  • You decide if and which questions you will answer 
  • You decide if you want your picture taken or not at these events 
  • You can tell the audience your boundaries upfront 
  • You can decide upfront if you will answer any questions